Men Wearing High Heels
By Lucy83
There is something very incredibly sexy about men wearing high heels. They radiate a beautiful mix of confidence and femininity that I can’t quite pin down. Perhaps it’s the fact that they dare to do something forbidden or perhaps it’s how they look a little vulnerable as they struggle to keep their balance. Or maybe it’s the feminine aura that gets me going. Probably all of those things but any one of them alone would be more than enough reason to love them. Seeing men wear high heels is fun, exciting and very attractive and I wish more men would dare to try going out in them because, believe it or not, some of us love high heels on men and they most definitely catch my eyes.
In fact, every man should get himself a pair of high heels for some special occasion or just for fun.
High Heels make the difference
Now take a look at the photo on the right. The one standing in the middle with those gorgeous legs is a man and the two standing on either side of him are women! He is the beautiful one, the eye-catcher and I’m not surprised they’re standing around him. Anyone’s eyes would just have to wander up and down those perfectly shaped legs and the shoes are the perfect finishing touch. The high heels make his legs look longer, make him stand taller and absolutely condemn him to looking feminine. Yes, I know, the fishnet tights are also feminine but without the heels, he would still look masculine because of his muscular legs. That would make him look like a dancer and they often wear tights. No, it’s definitely the high heels that really make him feminine.
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The magical effect of high heels
It has a whole load of effects on the man wearing high heels. They force him to carry himself in a more feminine way (this part I love). He has to walk more cautiously and self consciously. Men wearing high heels even sound like a woman. Try walking in high heels across a wooden floor in a large hall without getting noticed by everyone and making loads of heads turn - mine in particular.
Wearing high heels also makes you taller and that again makes you more noticed. You literally stand out more in heels. Once you’ve learned to walk in them, you will look very elegant and emit an almost noble kind of confidence.
So go and get your own pair right now
I love shopping for shoes and so will you once you discover the world of women’s shoes. Men’s shoes are practical and functional, but women’s shoes have all the elegance and variety that makes shoe shopping fun. I’m sure men would develop the same shoe obsession if they had as much choice.
Well
fortunately, now days there are plenty of shoe shops where you can buy high
heels for men. I’m looking forward to seeing more men wearing high heels in the
future. Many more I hope.
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Hi Lucy,
What a great post!
I would love to wear high heels out in public, (I'm a man), but I'm unsure of what to wear with them. Wearing skirt and stockings seem a bit "over the top" for me, so what I'm wondering about is what kind of jeans style would be best? Skinny, boot-cut, flare, straight etc. What would your advice be?
Hi Chris,
that really depends on the shape of your legs and feet. If you have very big feet then the skinny jeans will accentuate that further and make them look. Most men have quite big feet so then flares are surely better but this also depends on how thin your legs are. Better try them all out and see what works best.
Lucy, you really need to check out www.hhplace.org . There really are guys out here who wear high heels in public. I have been proudly wearing my stilettos in public for 6 years. Reactions from people have been very positive. I get compliments on my footwear choices from women and men. It has gotten me noticed by women. I wear them with carefully chosen men's clothing. If a guy is going to wear them it is important that he develops fashion sense.
Lucy: I'm 5'9" and bmi of 22 or so. Do you think I could get away with skinny jeans and heels? I wear a size 39 or 40 shoe.
From what you've told me it might be ok, Dave. But it depends on other things too. You just have to try it out and stand in front of a mirror.
Hi Lucy
As a man who loves heels as much as any girl and wears them outside sometimes, your article is like music to my ears. When the topic men and heels crops up on fashion boards it is normally attacked with lots of negative 'gay' comments which mostly outweight any neutral or positive encouragement. The site mentioned by the posted shafted above is worth a visit too, there are plenty of men who are dying to get out in heels but scared of the negative potential reactions.
So i say thanks to your article, and i wish there were more girls like you with your outward thinking as if there were im sure there are many men who would love the chance to step out without fear of been ridiculed.
Hi Duane,
sorry I had to deny your comment because it had naughty language. On my site at transvestitelounge.com you can talk more freely but here it's better not to.
To answer your question: it's ok to wear whatever you want. Personally I'm not so into bright colors on shoes as they tend to look tacky but that doesn't mean they don't suit you.
Hey Lucy its Duane I didn't mean too be a bad boy with my lingo in this forum IT WILL NOT HAPPEN AGAIN :( But I would like too say thank you for the feed back :)xoxoxoxo
Hey Lucy it me again i like to wear high heels also and pantyhose to i wear the pantyhose more because i can wear them under my blue jean when i go to starbucks in upland on 19th street and campus i just wish i could meet a woman like you
My the sun shine in you face and the wind be at your back
Unfortunately, a major reason there is such a negative stigma about men wearing heels or female clothing in general is because too many CD's and TS's portray themselves as undesirable sexual misfits who wear these things for sexual gratification. I see this all the time on the Net and on trash TV talk shows and it sickens me.
Until this behavior is not portrayed in such a way, and ordinary men, successful men and men who are married have the courage to wear what they want, be who they want and live ordinary respectful lives things will not change.
You're very right Tim,
but I often feel the media exaggerate that 'misfit' image of men wearing high heels. I also agree that the world needs more male celebrities to come out and wear what they want as opposed to what they should.
Hi Lucy
Love the post and the open mindedness. I am a male in his early 40's and have just discovered the joy of wearing heels (pumps, sandals, platforms and just yesterday a pair of knee high boots with 5 inch heel) everyone should share the fun.
Well Lucy, I have tried the skinny jeans thing and I think that regular boot cut jeans and heels look best. So--thats the way I'm going. Keep up the good work.
hallo Lucy,I found your site and I am very satisfied because I am a straight married man who loves wearing heels, I am o collector and have 55 (!) pairs!!! more than my wife. well, she know about my fetish with heels but is not very excieted about it. anyway, I wish I could wear them in public but the thing I can enjoy is wear them when I am alone or while driving. why is it so hard for society to accept men's right on wearing highheels??? keep up the good work !!!!
Hello lucy, i've enjoy your post and I wish society would'nt be the way it is but untill we as individuals put our heels down and say I want to dress as I want, there will always be the trditional judgement. PS I Love high heels
Hello Lucy,I love the thought of wearing heels but not sure what to get love the high heels boots could you help me to fine the best for me i have been wearing girl jeans i would like to wear a pair of meadium heels boots with them just not sure what to get hope you can help.
thank you David c
Hello Lucy,I would very much love to wear high heel boots but not sure what is the best for me to get i have been wearing girl jeans for some time now and i am ready to start wearing Medium to high heels boots and maby some high heels shoes but not sure what to get i was hoping you are some one on this page could help thank you for you and keep up the good work.
Hi David,
I think you need to try on different outfits and shoes in front of the mirror. How they suit you depends on your taste and your body and leg shape as well as how they match each other. Ultimately, if you feel comfortable in them, then they're almost certainly the right thing to wear.
Lucy, about the only thing that i would weal them with is my girl jeans, where would you start to look for high heels boots and high heels shoes i have a silm body type and i have been tould that my legs look better than most girl not sure how to get started i live in the south and the hole men and high heel has not quite got started here and when i go to try on lady shoes will you know i get some hard looks.I am not sure what size to get i wear a 6 1/2 to a 7 in men but not sure what size that would be in a lady shoe.Hope you can give me a hand i do wont to wear high heels lady shoes and boots. Thank you david
Hi Lucy,
i am a male who loves to wear heeled hiking boots. The heel is solid which is great for lots of walking and strengthening the calf muscles. they are not to feminine and when worn under trousers, can barely be noticed. It is exhilerating to be able to wear heels in public and to take laong walks of several kilometers at a time. thanks for your articles, blackshep
Hi Hope,
I love your articles.
I am a male who enjoys high heels and wearing in public mainly in parks.
I like a solid heel for walking and my favourites are heeled hiking boots. they are mot particularily feminine, so go well in an all male woardrobe. if trousers are worn over the boot, some ar all of the heel can be hidden from view.depends on how much you want to show. Haveing shoes for walking, strenghtens the calf muscles which for a first time heel wearer will testify, the calf muscles get very sore. I often walk 5 or 6 kilometrs each day with no discomfort
heel height I now wear is 4" - 4 1/2"
What to get--well. I like the louis heel (concave heel) I guess because Walt Disneys Pacos Bill came out when I was around 8 years old and cemented in my mind what a high heel boot or shoe should look like. I have tried spikes but they wear out fast and can break. Generaly a heel tip about the size of a quarter or at the least a dime is ok. Also the strike point of the heel should be under your ankle bone. To test this rock back on the heels while watching in a mirror, if you lift up much at all the heel is to far back and will be hard to walk in.
Hi Lucy and others
I need some help.. Ive been reading the articals on hear and its great to hear there are so many open minds out there.. I really need help from everyone. Im a 26 yr old girl and have been dating my bf for about a year. Recently i have desovered that my bf wears high heels.
It doesnt bother me but he is to embarrassed to talk to me about it.
I would love us to wear them together but first i have to get him to open up and talk to me about it... any suggestions will be much appreciated
Thank you
Hi Cherry,
I know it can be hard to deal with someone who closes up. All you can do really is keep making clear to him that you're fine with it. Perhaps it helps pointing out much worse problems that other couples can have. He needs to get it into perspective that wearing heels (or anything else) is harmless and no big deal.
I'm not into the whole high heels thing, but I do like women's boots, I'm looking at a nice pair of riding boots at my local DSW, and since they have a low-heel, wearing in public won't be an issue at all.
I'm 100% man, but I'm so attracted to women and their attire that I was overly curious to see if I would feel as sexy as women looked. So, I bought my first pair of super high heels and a couple pairs of stripped socks.
I felt so sexy that I couldn't wait to get home to put them on! I'm 6', so I chose a closed toe 4" platform, 6" stiletto heel. I probably watch too much porno, lol, but I didn't want my feet to look like boats in flats. When I have them on I feel almost as sexy as I would right before playing with my girlfriend... ALMOST as sexy!
Last Sunday I decided that I liked them so much that I ventured to wear them in public. I kind of punked out a bit because I wore an Adidas sweat suit and the pants are cut loose at the bottom, AND the pants are very long. I suppose that I didn't want people to notice, but when you walk in heels, people notice. The sound of heels on concrete or hard floors is definitely noticeable. It's the same sound that makes a man turn to see just exactly who is wearing them, and how cute she is!
Surprisingly enough, I felt exhilarated! I knew that I turned heads, and every person in my vicinity knew I was wearing heels! What's really odd is once I was out there, I didn't care who saw, or who knew. I felt empowered. It was strange but at the same time delightful.
I know that this won't be the last time I wear my super high heels or my next pair of heels in public!
Hi shawneejones,
that's a great story and will hopefully encourage many more men to try high heels in public.
thanks for the inspiration to wear my wedges in public shawneejones i m going out in the net week or so.
im-a-male-who-loves-wearing-high-heels-with-a6-or-6-inch-heelboth at home and in public i to like makeing love to a pair of high heels
I'm curious to know whether lightinventor had wore his wedges in public and if so, how did it make you feel?
I wore my newest pair of 6" high heels (black) out in public, but this time I decided to be more daring. I went to a local bar while Monday Night Football was on. I'll be honest... this is a local bar about 5 minutes from where I live, but not one that I frequent.
This time I wore my heels with a pair of dark blue jeans so you can definitely see that I had heels on, and a black DNKY sweater. Lol, I did wear a black ball cap pulled down really low, so this time the punk out factor was minimal, considering my heels were totally visible.
As soon as I walked in, a group of young ladies were the first people I saw. The first young lady looked at me and immediately turned to her friends and said, "He's wearing high heels!" They all turned around and looked down. I kind of felt uncomfortable but I figured I'm here, so I might has well embrace the moment. I walked up to the bar right next to them and ordered a beer. I took a couple sips and spotted an open seat, which was at the end of the bar, of course, lol!
As I walked through the bar every person turned to look, and I continued to the open seat smiling at every person that looked at me. I sat between a lady and an older guy. They were having a conversation about the Steelers winning another Superbowl and whether Pitt basketball should get more recognition in the city, so I joined in.
I stayed about an hour or so, and when the lady started wrapping the night up, so did I. I admit that the walk that I had leaving the bar was way more fierce than when I came in, and do believe sporting my heels to that bar was a huge confidence booster! The lady that I walked out with didn't bother to ask why I was wearing heels. She told me her name and said, "Maybe I'll see you here again."
I now feel like the sky is the limit! Although it will take me some time to actually wear my heels to the bars I do frequent, I don't think I'm too far off.
You will build more confidence every single time you wear them in public. Who knows... maybe the strip district is next on my agenda!
shawneejones, they are 5 1/2 wedge boots with a 1 1/2 platform in black. they were extremely comfortable. I did wear them in the city at a shoe store and some walking around but found little most did not even turn and look. your experience does give me a bit more confidence for me.
biggest deal is finding a pair of heels that will fit if you wear size 11 (male) and do not want the stripper type of shoes/boots
how do you learn to walk in high heels.
it s not difficult but would recommend starting lower to get used to it, but also the heel and general fit makes a difference. a spike is the hardest to walk in and the chunkier the heel the easier it is.
Hello high heel lovers.I just joined.I have been wearing heels since I was nine or ten years old.Its been 30 years or so and still wearing them.A 100 + pairs later..I only wear 5 or 6 in heels ,mostly 6 in and without a platform.Receintly I just bought several pairs from Germany made in Italy.They are awesome the feel of them when you put your foot in them,and I always wear stockings.They are the best fitting shoe I have ever worn.I love going out in the evenings wearing them.And I am also a CD which enables me to go out wearing heels and usually a very short skirt,about as short as hot pants.I have great legs and ass.My ankles are so small that handcuffs slip right on.And by the way I live in Upland Ca.Well thats a little about me.And thats all for now....
Shawneejones i went out night in the city my wedge boots and a above the knee blue denim skirt and did some shoe shopping and a starbucks and a little strolling around i found no one even batted an eye. it was a nice evening, living in the suburbs there they are a little more conservative. i enjoyed the walk and enjoyed the freedom.
I dont see my post did I do something wrong and you did not post it here...connie
Hey Lucy, I'm a man who loves wearing feminine stuff. I just recently indulged in my own pair of stiletto heels just to get a sense of how it feels for a woman to walk in these shoes..! In the video you can see me (30-year-old man) in pantyhose, skirted leotard and black patent high heels that lock around the ankles! I simply adore the fact that I can't take off my sexy heels without the keys! Please leave feedback and.. great article!
Forgot to share the link, here you go...
@ Heels 6 in
That's my fault. I'm behind in moderating the comments. Sry about that. Eventually I read all the comments.
@ Desmond
Nice legs! You need to get better posture and learn to walk to make the best of your figure.
looks good desmond , you walk very natural , and very nice lags and shape.
I just got denim pencil skirt and 5 inch platforms and went to the city for a stroll still getting used to the stillettos may wear my wedges next time there still getting used to new height.
lightinventor,
How long did it take you to get used to wearing High heels and how is the best way to do that? I am also haveing a hard time finding a shoe that will fit me. I wear a size 8 wide where would you start looking for that size?Hope you can help this is all new to me but i have allways love the thought of wearing high heels and just thought it is time to go for it and wear what i wont to.
david
I wear a 7 to 7 1/2 women's and found that wedge platform boots fit the best at 7 1/2 but the stilletos are platform too which makes a difference, I find platforms work the best for for me My actual size is just above a 7 so i do a 7 1/2 fits best. as for as your size of 8 wide might consider 8 1/2 , but also look to see if your feet are the same. I found my right is closer to a 7 1/2 and my left is closer to a 7.
lightinventor,
Thank you for the help getting better in walking in heels started with a much smaller heel found that works better and work my way up to a larger heels not sure how long to stay in the small heel.
I love to wear high heel shoes or boots. My size is either 13-14 depending on shoes but love to wear womens boots and very high heel shoes. I have several pairs of high heels but my favorite is my high heel boots. Would have no problem wearing them if or when I get banged by another male. Hope to hear from him soon.
since last time i wrote iv woren my high heels out in public they had a 7 inch heel
Haalo lucy. Ik draag laarzen met een 8cm hoge hak onder een jeans in publiek met nylons en body. Super gevoel bij winkelen of wandelen. Mijn vrouw gaat mee zonder reaktie. Mannen moeten experimenteren en weten hoe dit voelt Fantastisch. Proberen maar.
Hi jempyy,
couldn't understand any of what you wrote :(
it was in dutch see translation
I am wearing boots with a 8cm high heel under a jeans with nylons in public and body. Super feeling when shopping or walking. It is my wife without behaviour. Men must know how this experiment and feels fantastic. But try.
i've always wanted to be locked in high heels or just wear them everywhere i love high heels !
i'm a boy and has always wanted a friend (girl) that would understand, teach me to walk i heels and help me buy and choose which ones :-)
Very nice site... thank you for sharing...
Wendy
Love the article, could'nt agree more. There is something empowering that happens when you step into a great pair of heels. Every time I walk into a club showing a lot of leg and wearing heels, I know that the night is mine. I've got a few photos of how I do it here: http://www.PaulDuane.net/blog/fetish
Keep it up.
Hello I have always been fascinated with high heels and lingerie. I meet a very understanding woman and I told her my fetish bout high heels and she was confused at first and the more we talked bout it she loves the idea. I bought a pair of 6inch strappy sandals and bought her a pair of 4.5 inch strappy sandals to she loved the pics I sent her and can't wait for us to wear them together. I think heels are sexy and these are not to bad
lots of heels 11 months ago
My wife has had me wearing high heels for several years since she is only 2 inches shorter than me and loves to wear 6 inch heels. She also doesn't like to be taller than me and so having me wear 5 to 6 inch heels keeps our heights in the right proportion.